Here in the countryside where we live, it sometimes feels like everybody knows everybody, though of course when we moved here, I felt for a long time like I knew nobody (dude, that’s what this whole blog is about).
One person we did know right off the bat, fortunately, is our realtor, Colleen (who definitely knows everybody), and she anticipated this conundrum because during our home inspection, while the inspection guy was doing his thing, she announced, Anne, we’re going to go meet your neighbors.
There are many trees around our house, and only our next door neighbors’ house is visible through them. Colleen knows (of course) the adult son of the couple who lives there, so when she knocked on the door with me in tow and we were greeted by a bearded gentleman wearing sweatpants, she announced that she was a friend of Kevin’s and she wanted to introduce their new neighbor.
He was politely taken aback, I think, protesting that he was just doing a little writing that afternoon.
We won’t stay long, promised Colleen.
And we didn’t stay long, just long enough to ascertain that our neighbors, Richard and Kathleen, were nice folks. In fact, as I learned over the past two years, they are tremendously kind and brilliant people, generous with their knowledge about the surrounding area and a glass of rosé as well.
We lost Richard last week to Covid.
He had been in not-great health for the past year, a reminder of the infuriating way that time steals people away little by little. Both Richard and Kathleen picked up the virus over the holidays. She is still working through the lingering bits of it, he is not.
As I write this, I know that I am actually extraordinarily fortunate in this modern-day world we are walking through. Our family, so far, is healthy and safe. Most of our friends are, too. When you hear about more than 500,000 Americans losing their lives related to this disease, it’s a shocking number, but it’s really those people who are the ones in a half-million who bring the loss home.
If you want to learn about our amazing neighbor, the university where he taught for more than forty years made a beautiful tribute video. My heart is with his family.
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A lovely tribute. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks so much, Denise. He was a very cool person and I’m so enriched by having known him.
Oh Anne, how awful. My condolences to his family and to you. It looks like he had a wonderful life with so many great experiences traveling and influencing students.
Thank you so much, Aviva. He and his wife, Kathleen, have been so good to us. I would go over to their house to pick their brain about Franklin County history and not leave for hours.
Anne thanks for sharing – what a beautiful tribute to your friend Richard who as a professor and a good neighbor who has a positive impact on so many.
Thanks so much, Meg. We were lucky to live next to someone so brilliant and kind.